Author: Nkansa

When we found out we were having twins, the best decision for us was for me to take 6 months off work. With my experience with my daughter, I knew taking care of two babies at the same time was going to be much more difficult, so I needed ample time off. I used to… Continue reading What my day looks like

“How do you tell them apart?” “Do you get confused sometimes?” “They’re so identical.” I get this all the time. In fact, it was one of my greatest wonders, as to how we’ll be able to tell the boys apart and praying to God to give one a birthmark or distinctive feature for easy identification.… Continue reading How we tell them apart

Disclaimer: this post is in no way a ‘how-to’ guide on how to sleep-train your children. I am no expert; just sharing what worked for me. 😉😎 One of the reasons why I’m not a huge fan of pregnancy and everything it comes with, is the lack of sleep. Don’t get me wrong, I love… Continue reading Sleeping through the night

As the Bible says in Psalm 111:10a, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom...”, my life skill version growing up was, “The fear of my mother is the beginning of wisdom” Nkansa 29:4a. Growing up as a child my mum (NYPD - Nana Yaa Police Department) was strict. She was very nice… Continue reading The Real MVP!

If I was asked to write an essay, like is usually done in school, about the day I would never forget, it would be about the day my sons got circumcised. Yo! Bruh! No one prepares you for that. I will keep saying this, giving birth during Christmas is the worst. Not only are you… Continue reading Circumcision

I’m sure the question on a lot of people’s mind is: “How is she feeding the twins? Is she breastfeeding? Are they on formula?” I have been asked these questions so many times and people always get fascinated. I honestly sometimes feel like a “superstar” answering them. lol. When you have a CS, because you… Continue reading Breast is best. Fed is best.

Being the first born comes with a lot of perks. Everything is brand new. As a new mum, I bought everything. She was the first grandchild of her paternal grandparents and the second for her maternal grandparents. They all doted over her. She had it all. It got to a point in her life where… Continue reading Her reign is over!

Caesarian section (C-section) is a MAJOR SURGERY. I can’t stress on that enough. You are literally being sliced up layer by layer to bring out a baby or babies. It is no joke! In my whole life, I never knew I would have to undergo any surgery. When I was pregnant with my daughter, I… Continue reading On the road to recovery…

I have come to the realization and conclusion that I can't be alone with all my 3 children... at least for now. I ain't even ashamed to say it! Can I please be real? Am I allowed to rant please?These past two days have been tough to say the least. I have been tried and… Continue reading HELP !

17th December 2018 couldn't come soon enough. This date was registered in my brain like a meter! As per the doctor's advice, 37 weeks was the best time to bring the twins out. A caesarean section was the best option because they were sharing a placenta and the risk would have been too high if… Continue reading It’s time to bring these boys out!!!